May 12, 2012
New Project: A Year of Reading Feminist-ly

I’ve been thinking about this for a while, but I’m finally working to get this project started. Basically, I’m planning on spending the next year:

  1. Reading books by women: I’m relatively well-read, but I recognize that I haven’t read many books by women. I’d like to read more, but I think the only way for me to do it is to do it on purpose by not reading books by men.
  2. Reading books by WOC, non-American/non-English women, queer women, and trans women: Again, I think this is something that I need to do on purpose.
  3. Writing reviews of books that I’ve read or am reading.
  4. Writing about women in media, specifically in movies and television shows that I watch, including but not limited to: Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Mad Men, and several older TV shows (possible Buffy, BSG, Torchwood, Angel, and others). I haven’t completely decided where I’m going to go with this yet, but I have lots of feelings about things, and I’d like to share them.
  5. Writing about media literacy in generally, especially as it regards advertising.
  6. Possibly some other TBA stuff, but primarily focusing on books.

What I need: SUGGESTIONS. Books to read, mostly. I can’t guarantee I’ll read everything, but I’d like to have some outside ideas in addition to what I already have planned.

March 20, 2012
Tiger Beatdown › Sympathy for the Devil: On HBO’s “Game Change,” and Hating Ladies for the Right Reasons

March 6, 2012
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This is why liberated female sexuality is so threatening. Conservative ideology holds that men and women are opposites. Men like sex, and so in order to keep the ideology intact, women can’t. In this world, women instead want male approval and of course babies, and sex is something they have to endure to get it. Contraception and especially abortion undermine this theory, not just because they can’t conceive of a woman saying no to babies, but also because they’re operating under an image of pregnancy as being something that gets men who otherwise want nothing to do with women (outside of sex) to commit. That women themselves say no to babies but yes to sex makes it hard to believe that it’s just women putting up with sex to get marriage-and-babies. That women often choose abortion in order to avoid marriage and babies (at least at this point in time) sends them around the bend. It suggests that people are individuals, not easily categorized genders with predictable and opposite behavior.

If you won’t choose it, then they feel that they’re in their rights to force it. When women can’t access contraception and abortion, sex is, in fact, less fun for them because it’s fraught. It does, in fact, introduce a power imbalance to sexual interactions between men and women because women are vulnerable in a way men aren’t. Giving men that power over women restores what conservatives believe is the proper order. If they can shame women and convince them that only sluts like sex, they can also get women to engage as enforcers, implying that they’re too good for that dirty sex stuff, unlike those lesser women. (Exhibit A.) That just bolsters the illusion that male and female sexuality are very different, and in that difference, they can find leverage to argue—-though indirectly, as is their habit—-that women are lesser than men.

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Amanda Marcotte

January 21, 2012
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For decades now, conservatives have loved an anti-feminist woman, believing, correctly, that having women express hostility to women’s rights dilutes the feminist ideology. Putting anti-feminist views in a woman’s mouth allows conservatives to argue that many women are perfectly happy allowing men to take the lead. Additionally, anti-feminist women can be used to shame feminists, by asking them why they can’t just accept the status quo like conservative women do. Many pundits and writers have made a career being the woman who opposes women’s empowerment: Phyllis Schlafly, Ann Coulter, Beverly LaHaye, among others. As long as these women’s actions are seen as fundamentally supportive of male dominance, they’re applauded for speaking out, and make money doing it.

The problems arise when anti-feminist women start to seek real power for themselves. Bachmann is far from the first female candidate whose anti-feminist views gained her a flurry of enthusiasm but whose conservative base reneged at the last minute. That base is unable to grant serious power to a woman, no matter how much she promised to use it to disempower other women. Michele Bachmann is simply the latest conservative woman who has found that she’s trapped not under a glass ceiling, but in a glass house: stuck in the role of champion for male control, unable to get a piece of the pie for themselves.

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Amanda Marcotte | Michele Bachmann’s glass house | The Great Debate

January 11, 2012
"Misogyny is a systematic and institutionalized form of bigotry and oppression that permeates through every aspect of our society in ways that can be obvious or more subtle (rape culture and its perpetuation can be obvious or subtle and can sometimes be difficult for a man who has never felt its effects to detect, but either way it’s horrifying.) Misandry is not systematic and it is not institutionalized. The distrust or hatred of men is a rational reaction to misogyny, which is ubiquitous and static. Statements like “can’t we all just be friends?” assume that there exists a level playing field. Until this level playing field truly exists, statements like these can easily be dismissed as childish, naive, shallow, frivolous and boring."

My response to a man asking “can’t we all just be friends?” and “isn’t misandry just as bad as misogyny?” (via sixtyforty)

ugh I want to staple this to the “what about the menz??!” faux-feminist guys on my course.

(via kitschy-kat)

*slow clap*

(via jaguar-paw)

THIS!

(via feministslut)

slow clap is right.

(via sexxxisbeautiful)

(via sanityscraps)

January 4, 2012
Piranhas might have razor sharp teeth andthe ability to communicate but I’d rather have them feast on my body than this Pacu Fish. Why? Well, you see, the Pacu Fish has human-like teeth and loves to bite off testicles to ensure you die a slow, ball-less and bleed-full death. Ow. According to The Telegraph, the Pacu Fish is known as the ‘Ball Cutter’ in Papua New Guinea where locals have reported two deaths due to the impossibly scary Pacu Fish testicle bite. This Fish Has Teeth So Big It Bites People’s Balls Off
Since I’m such a feminazi and a manhater, I think this is what I should be reincarnated as.

Piranhas might have razor sharp teeth andthe ability to communicate but I’d rather have them feast on my body than this Pacu Fish. Why? Well, you see, the Pacu Fish has human-like teeth and loves to bite off testicles to ensure you die a slow, ball-less and bleed-full death. Ow. According to The Telegraph, the Pacu Fish is known as the ‘Ball Cutter’ in Papua New Guinea where locals have reported two deaths due to the impossibly scary Pacu Fish testicle bite.
This Fish Has Teeth So Big It Bites People’s Balls Off

Since I’m such a feminazi and a manhater, I think this is what I should be reincarnated as.

December 27, 2011
Looking for Great Movies for Kids « Greater Than Lapsed

December 24, 2011
And At Once I Knew, I Was Not Magnificent.: "The Real Deal about Women In The 21st Century"

hernameiskayla:

(From USImmigrationNewspaper.com)

Women and men of the current era often feel that the struggle for gender equality is not a number one priority on the social agenda any longer, as it was 40 or 50 years ago because women are better off today. They often forget that their mothers and grandmothers were the ones who bore the brunt of an era where women were treated unequally and unfairly. It was the voices of our mothers and grandmothers that influenced the opportunities that women today enjoy. Women have come a long way, but they have not yet arrived. Let me present to you some of the greatest social challenges faced by women in the twenty-first century.

1. Women are overworked - Women all over the world are overworked, underpaid and unrecognized. While women produce 75 to 90 percent of food crops in the world, they are also responsible for the running of households. According to the United Nations, in no country in the world do men come anywhere close to women in the amount of time spent doing housework. Women in the wealthiest Western countries also suffer disproportionately; they are the ones who carry the heaviest work load when it comes to children, housework, and general care and management of family affairs.

2. Women are poorer- Sociologists often refer to this phenomenon as the “feminization of poverty,” where two out of every three poor adults, the world over, are women. The majority of the 1.5 billion people surviving on 1 dollar a day or less are women. In current times, the divide between women and men caught in the cycle of poverty is not being reversed, as many have proclaimed, in fact it has continued to widen in the past decade. Worldwide, women earn on average slightly more than 50 per cent of what men earn. The dreadful consequences of women living in poverty is that they are often denied access to critical resources such as proper health care, credit, land and inheritance.

3. Women are not portrayed fairly and accurately in the media- While we must agree that women have made considerable strides in the media industry- there is definitely more representation than what we had 20 years ago. Women are still boxed into certain roles on television and film –‘The Drama Queen’, ‘The Supermom’, ‘The Sex Kitten’, ‘The Desperate Housewife’. We are also primarily bombarded by images of women and girls who are unnaturally thin with faces way too made up. The exclusion of women by race is also a detected phenomenon. For example, in the USA, missing or abducted women and girls of certain physical features, particularly white and blonde, receive more media attention and coverage than African, Asian, and Latina women. As a result, the cases of women with more media attention are solved in less time. Also, the role of women, as the cover girl image, often presented in the media, sends the message that a pretty face is worth more than intelligence, skill and expertise. This happens in all nations, from the wealthiest to the poorest. 

4. Women work harder and are “still” paid less - Women do two-thirds of the world’s work, receive 10 percent of the world’s income and own 1 percent of the means of production.   Richard H. Robbins, in his book ‘Global Problems and the Culture of Capitalism’, p. 354, writes: “According to Inter Press Service, “On a global scale, women cultivate more than half of all the food that is grown. In sub-Saharan Africa and the Caribbean, they produce up to 80 percent of basic foodstuffs. In Asia, they account for around 50 percent of food production. In Latin America, they are mainly engaged in subsistence farming, horticulture, poultry and raising small livestock.” Yet these women often get little recognition for that. In fact, many go unpaid.” Obviously this problem is not only a “Third World” phenomenon for in the USA, according to most current reports, up to 2006, women working full-time still earned only about 70 cents for every dollar a man working full-time earned.

6. Women are the main victims of violence around the world- Amnesty International reports that violence against women and girls is the most pervasive human rights challenge of our times. It cuts across cultural and religious boundaries, political, social and economic status. For many women their home is a place of terror, even in rich societies. There is a call for help against domestic violence every minute in Britain. In Ciudad Juárez, more than 370 poor young women, have been abducted, tortured, raped and murdered in cities on the Mexican/US border without authorities taking proper measures to investigate. In the USA, 700,000 women are reported raped every year. In South Africa, teenage girls are at the greatest risk for rape. Fifty per cent of all murders in Bangladesh are of women by their partners. Around the world, 120 million girls are genitally mutilated. According to World Bank figures, at least one in five women and girls has been beaten or sexually abused in her life time.

7. Women are the greatest victims of war and internal conflicts- Women are the forgotten victims of war. When nations wage war, men are called to fight while the women are left at home and are expected to live life as usual. Mass destruction of communities results in large-scale disruption and hardship for women and children, forced to flee, while the male members of the community are either executed or they lose contact with their families. Violence against women reaches epidemic proportions with mass rape of women and girls used as weapons of war.

As women, we need to stand together against these injustices. We have only come so far, we have a long way to go. I believe in us.

(via gynocraticgrrl)

December 21, 2011
Whenever a woman says, “I hate girls; they’re catty bitches,” a patriarchy fairy gets its wings.

(Source: iamabutchsolo, via gynocraticgrrl)

December 15, 2011
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Feminist marriage is a three-way contract between two women and government. Most women will have children, and few women can afford or will go to the extreme of using artificial insemination to achieve pregnancy. Government is the automatic third party collecting “child support” entitlements for children born in these marriages.

Children will be born of extramarital affairs backed by welfare guarantees and child support entitlements. Feminist marriages are automatically entitled with many tax-free, governmental income sources for having children.

Feminist marriage is a marriage between any two women and the welfare state. It constitutes a powerful feminist takeover of marriage by government, and places the NOW in the position of dictating government policy as a matter of “feminist Constitutional rights.”

Feminist marriage will be far more attractive to women than heterosexual marriage. Sexual orientation does not matter when two women marry and become “married room-mates.” They can still have as many boyfriends as they want and capture the richest ones for baby-daddies by “forgetting” to use their invisible forms of birth control. On average, a feminist marriage will have at least four income sources, two of them tax-free, plus backup welfare entitlements.

Feminist marriage is government-sponsored serial polyandry, uniquely enriched by one or more substantial income sources not available to the other two planned subordinate classes of marriage.

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The Center for Marriage Policy : Why Same-sex marriage is unconstitutional

I don’t think I ever got this memo, you guys. I can’t believe you would plan something like this without telling me.

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